Category Archives: Proverbs

Who is that walking beside you?

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Everyone loves to have Pete show up. He makes you feel good about yourself. The problem is, when Pete comes, Danny isn’t far behind. Danny leaves you feeling discouraged, like a loser. We love Pete but don’t invite him because Danny will surely follow.

I thought of that scenario recently when I read:
Proverbs 11:2.
When pride comes,
then comes disgrace.
But with humility comes wisdom.

Pride and disgrace are traveling buddies.
Humility and wisdom are also traveling buddies.

If I invite Pete Pride to the party – into my life – I can be sure Danny Disgrace will soon be knocking on the door. In the same way, if I walk through my day accompanied by Humility, I am told that Wisdom will join the party, too.

Every day, I need to regularly check to see who is walking beside me. It’s important to have the right companion because I know who will join us. Pride will bring Disgrace along. Humility will attract Wisdom. And Proverbs 3 says when Wisdom is along many other wonderful traveling buddies show up too, including long life, riches, honor, peace, and blessing.

Solomon thought this lesson was so important that he stated it another way a couple of chapters later.

Proverbs 13:20
Walk with the wise and become wise,
a companion of fools suffers harm.

Notice, I don’t have to be a fool to suffer harm. I just need to hang out with fools and harm will soon pay me a visit. In the same way, I don’t have to be very wise, just wise enough to hang around wise people, and I will grow in wisdom.

Have you seen this principle in your life?
Samson did. Saul did. Nebechaddnezer did. Haman did. I’ll bet you can name a few examples of people alive today who have experienced it, too. Sure enough, Pride and Disgrace still travel together. But, so do Humility and Wisdom.

So, who are you walking with today?
As for me and my house, …….
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Proverbs 29:23
Pride brings a person low, but the lowly in spirit gain honor.
Proverbs 18:12
Before a downfall the heart is haughty, but humility comes before honor.
Luke 14:11
For all who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.
1 Peter 5:6
Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time.

How to not be naive.

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How to not be naiveI met a fellow who told me he wanted to help troubled marriages. That’s noble. When I found out he was not married I asked what he thought he had to offer couples who were going through marital problems.

“Oh,” he said, “I understand pretty much everything there is to know about marriage problems. I’ve been divorced five times.”

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Should we wear masks after the pandemic?

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He is a renowned expert in the medical field but he is viewing the world like I used to as a kid. With two empty toilet paper rolls I had a pair of binoculars. And, they really did make things look bigger! At least I thought so.

Maybe they didn’t work but by blocking out everything else it sure made whatever I was looking at seem bigger. When we narrow our focus and only see one thing it looks like that is the whole world, the complete picture. And that’s what our medical friend was doing when he said that after this COVID pandemic masks should become like seatbelts – we all wear them whenever we are in public and even shame inconsiderate people who don’t. He is an expert so he must be right. Or is he? Here is the crazy part about his suggestion. Continue reading →

COVID-19 Response: 3 Things We Can Do NOW.

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Let's love the fear out of peopleI send you out as lambs among wolves.*

Lambs among wolves? Really Jesus? That’s crazy! We’re gonna get creamed! The kingdom of God is upside-down (at least from the world’s point of view.)

It’s “crazy” to think:

  • If you have a need, give … and it shall be given unto you.
  • If you want to save your life … lose it.
  • If you exalt yourself you’ll be humbled. Humble yourself to be exalted.
  • If you want to be great .. be a servant of all.
    Not just a servant to the influential but a servant even to other servants.

In this time of world chaos it’s easy to respond like the world: anxiety, insecurity, complaining and hoarding because we don’t know what’s coming. That’s a natural response but …

God has called us to live supernaturally (above the natural). That means more than “I don’t smoke and I don’t chew and I don’t go with girls that do.”

It’s easy to condemn the bad ACTIONS of the world
while we have the same bad ATTITUDES of the world.

If our attitudes and actions are just like the world we can expect to reap the same harvest the world reaps – anxiety, worry and hopelessness. But how can we live counter-culturally, counter-intuitively, upside-down from the world’s perspective? Continue reading →

30 Days To A Happier You

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I recently ran across the most amazing book. And, let me just say up front, this post is NOT selling a book. In fact, I only have one copy of the book and there is no way you are getting mine from me. But, I can tell you where you can get a copy and it’s not expensive – but it will change your life.

If you want to develop a more positive outlook on life and just be overall happier every day, you must get this book. I guarantee … did you hear that … guarantee this book will change your life in just 30 days – or less. And, it’s not a big book, an expensive book nor hard to read. And, it is NOT the Bible, though I highly recommend that one for a changed life, too. Continue reading →

Do you ever want to scream because life is so unfair?

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The ScreamThis little story really rattles my cage. What do you think??

“Azariah son of Amaziah king of Judah began to reign. … He did what was right in the eyes of the Lord, just as his father Amaziah had done. … The Lord afflicted Azariah with leprosy until the day he died, and he lived in a separate house.” (2 Kings 15:1-5 NIV)

What?! This man obeyed God, was a good king and yet it specifically says the Lord gave him leprosy – the most dreaded disease of that day. That stinks.

Where is the justice in that? How can God do such a thing to a man who is walking in obedience? It would be one thing if it said God “allowed” it but it clearly says God caused it. Can we even trust God to be just when He does stuff like this to a good king who is faithfully serving Him? Continue reading →

The Great I AM not

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i amIn Exodus 3 God referred to Himself as I AM. Grammatically that leaves a blank that I want to fill in. I am … what? And the words that we could use to fill that blank are nearly endless.

He is love. He is joy. He is peace. He is patient. He is kind. He is holy. He is faithful. He is …

In worship this morning I was thinking of all that He is and realizing that if He is the Great I AM, then I am the great I am not.

He is Holy. I am not. He is always kind. I am not. He is always faithful. I am not. He never fails. I do. He does not judge by outward appearance. I do. He always thinks the best. I don’t. In every area where He is the I AM, I am the I-am-not. Continue reading →

What to do in a crisis.

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crisis aheadEverything that can go wrong will go wrong – and at the worst possible time.

We call that Murphy’s Law and all of us have experienced it. In fact, I’ll bet there have been times things were so rotten that you thought Murphy was an optimist.

So what do you do at times like that? In 1 Samuel 4:3 the army of Israel got their tail kicked in battle. “When the soldiers returned to camp, the elders of Israel asked, “Why did the Lord bring defeat on us today before the Philistines?”

When things fell apart for them, they blamed God for their problem – “the Lord brought the defeat”.

But instead of asking God what was wrong they devised their own plan.

“Let us bring the ark of the Lord ’s covenant from Shiloh, so that he may go with us and save us from the hand of our enemies.” (1 Samuel 4:3)

Instead of going to God with the problem they discuss it among themselves, they plan, they scheme, they come up with a great idea. Send the ark of the covenant into battle ahead of the troops. Surely God won’t let us be defeated if we have the ark with us. He wouldn’t let the enemy steal His box. This plan can’t fail. Continue reading →

I don’t care what you think.

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Babe RuthBabe Ruth was one of the greatest hitters and perhaps one of the greatest baseball players of all time. I recently read a story about this great hitter striking out.  He let the pitch pass and the umpire screamed, “Strike three. You’re out.” Babe turned to him and said, “There are 40,000 fans in this stadium that all think that was a ball.” The ump calmly responded, “That might be true but my opinion is the only one that counts.”

The 40,000 voices from the stands today make some pretty bold declarations about what is moral and what is immoral, about what is right and what is wrong, about what we should tolerate and what we should not tolerate. The majority of the experts proclaim God’s Word to be outdated, out of touch and irrelevant. As a believer it may seem like you are swimming upstream against Niagara Falls.

But, there is only One whose opinion counts. Disagree with Him and “You’re out!”
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Proverbs 21:30
There is no wisdom, no insight, no plan that can succeed against the LORD.

Psalm 2:2, 4
The kings of the earth prepare for battle; the rulers plot together against the LORD and against his anointed one. … But the one who rules in heaven laughs. The Lord scoffs at them.

Why do some soar?

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Those that wait on the LordSomething about the book of Job always troubled me. God allowed all Job’s children to be killed. At the end of the book it says the Lord gave him 7 sons and 3 daughters – like that would make it all right.

“Lord,” I thought, “I can’t believe that fixed everything. If You gave me 10 more kids that wouldn’t make up for the loss of even one of mine.”

In my heart I heard the Lord say, “I never said it made it right. I just told you what I did for Job so he did not grow old alone. Do you think he has any complaints about how I treated Him?”

Duh! I felt pretty foolish. Of course Job has no complaints about God’s treatment of him. For thousands of years he has been happily reunited with his whole family – those children before and after his trial. He wouldn’t complain about a few years of pain compared to the indescribable joy he has experienced for these thousands of years – and will continue to experience throughout eternity.

Life can be brutal. Why do some sink while others soar? I thought of a fellow who whined to me for two hours about how he was tossing out his faith in God because of a relatively minor problem he was having. Then I thought of a heroic friend who daily battles pain due to lupus but declares the goodness of God in the midst of it and even ministers to others every day she is physically able to.

Why are some of us like straw men that any tiny puff of adversity scatters to the wind and others like eagles that the storms lift to new heights of glory?

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